Table of Conents

• The Game Plan, by 60 Years of Challenge
• Some Nights There is Zero, by Aaron Sleazy

The Game Plan, by 60 Years of Challenge

It's not the girl it's the game plan.

The strategy stays the same. Screen out the uninterested girls quickly. Escalate fast. Drag her away. It's so simple. But sometimes we unnecessarily complicate things. What do I do if she is being difficult? What can I say if she has a boyfriend. What is the hidden secret for getting the 10's?

 The subscribers to my newsletter heard the news first, and now it is time to announce the info on TheSeducers.com: "Debunking the Seduction Community" is done.

Download it directly from my website. It's a PDF with 400 KB.

For a short description, check this page.

Key points of this book are:

• Commercial foundations of the seduction industry
• Why game is not the "great equalizer"
• The disastrous role of Neil Strauss' book "The Game"
• Why phone numbers and make outs are red herrings for seduction
• The unfortunate marriage of new age and the pickup scene
• A very simple overview of seduction and how it really works

I'm sitting in a local coffee shop with Sixty, and just noticed something pop into my RSS reader. tsbmag.com has published Sixty's latest article "Getting Over Your Fear of Escalation". Check it out, and leave a comment to show your support. 

Table of Contents Personal Development Traps To Avoid, by RagsToRich Looking Back and Moving Forward, by Aaron Sleazy Making A Change, by The Cost of Success Accountability in Personal Development, by TheLetter

Personal Development Traps To Avoid, by RagsToRich

Who I am today bears little resemblance to the person who first typed “how to attract girls” into Google, and was brutally awoke to the reality of who I was. See for me, discovering pick-up wasn’t like waking up to a world of riches to be plucked, I awoke to the messy reality of the person I was. It was clear that before I even started thinking about women I had some change work to do.

What we’re talking about here is someone who had only ever worked in retail, chain smoked, had very few friends, and was basically a loser with some unrealistic fantasies about sex. Comparing that person to someone now who has a well-paid corporate job, is starting their own business, gets sex with new girls frequently, has an abundance of really great friends, and is doing some very exciting and cool things with their life.

Did you know you can integrate your account at theseducers.com with your twitter account?
Go to: http://theseducers.com/user/me/edit/twitter to add your username.
Once that page refreshes, select that twitter account as the one to which updates can be sent.

Exciting news, guys. I am introducing Journals to theseducers.com. Other boards have sub-forums for keeping user journals, but to me using a single forum thread to maintain a journal has always felt... upside down since online journals are typically read newest entry first like a news site. Cliff's List has a blogging feature that works somewhat like this.

Then again, there is still a desire to keep your forum posts as part of your personal record. You want to be able to view your story in one post, but you'd also like to put up your field reports or thoughts in with the main forum. 

Well, after some work, I've managed to integrate both "blogging" and "forum posting" into a user journals at theseducers.com.

You can now post a journal entry that is independent of the forums. Alternatively, when you make a forum post there is now a check box that will add that particular forum post into your journal. Thus, your journal is a compilation of journal entries and selected forum posts. 

Additionally, you can protect journal entries to be friends-only. 

Hope you get some mileage out of this. I know I'll be using my journal. In fact, this post is a part of mine .

Your own journal is viewable at theseducers.com/journal/uid/me and a compilation of everyone's journals is at theseducers.com/journal. Individual user journals are at theseducers.com/journal/[username]

--TheLetter

Recommended Reading

This is a list of recommended reading for users of this site. It is a set of content we feel best encapsulates the spirit of TheSeducers.com. In addition, it can serve as a good starting point for budding seducers.

• The Seducer's Anti-Manifesto, by 60 Years of Challenge serves as a wonderful introduction to minimalist seduction, with a focus on seductive listening and escalation.
• The Secrets of Micro-Escalation and Escalating the Vibe, by 60 Years of Challenge
• The slides from Aaron Sleazy's talk on Overcoming The Seduction Community are a great commentary on the faults and failures of the mainstream pickup community.  Towards the end are some suggestions for realistically improving your sex life. 
• Aaron Sleazy has later expanded the slides to an ebook with the title Debunking the Seduction Industry, which is freely available from his website. It also contains a very basic and realistic overview of seduction.
• The Seducer's Newsletters are all helpful resources. In particular, the newsletters on Understanding Neediness Management, Learning Mindsets vs. Lifestyle Mindsets, The Tacky Makeout Guy, Demystifying The Kiss, and Tapping Into Sexual Tension are a great starting point. 

Cliff's List has published an article I've written on an alternative to traditional community winging I call "tandem soloing".

It's the minimalist winging, for the minimalist seducer .

But to be less slogany, tandem soloing is when two guys go out together, but avoid working the same groups of girls, and when they do, to simply take a divide and conquer approach instead of trying to pump each other up and all that.

One of the worst possible ways to ruin your night is to work with a less experienced guy who is tanking your interactions, so tandem soloing is a way to buffer against that.

You can view the article here.

Table of Contents Women are Tension AFCs, by 60 Years of Challenge The Misguided Need for Perfection, by Aaron Sleazy Just Dive In, by TheLetter

 Women are Tension AFCs, by 60 Years of Challenge

"strange behavior is your signal to make a move" - Sixty

Every woman you meet will respond differently to sexual tension. Some can handle it easily and others start acting, well...a little strange. Whether she says "what" when you look at her, won't stop talking or constantly tries to bait you to break rapport, the truth is some women are simply tension AFC's. This can
be cute but it can also be a huge turn-off after a while.

You don't really need to do or say much of anything. 

There is already tension between men and women. By definition that tension is sexual. It's always lurking just beneath the surface. If it was acceptable I believe people everywhere would be having care-free sex with multiple partners all the time. This tension is so dangerous it often leads to complete strangers having sex in less than 10 minutes. This tension is why some men feel the need to cover women head to toe in burkas. It's also why women know it's dangerous to put themselves in a situation where they are alone with you.